Eva Chen

Valentine's Day

Charlie hates Valentine's Day. "too commercial" he always like to say. To please girl friend, he still did what gentleman should do for few years. Last year, he thoughts he might be able to escape from buying flowers, as girlfriend didn't mention about Valentine's Day.

A week after that special day, Charlie got earful because he didn't buy flowers. His usual smooth talking and excuse didn't work either. He had to buy two dozen roses before girl friend smiled again.

I met Charlie last week. He told me he already made booking to buy roses. It is more economical to buy now then later.

Why Valentine's Day is such a big deal for women?

Am I hopeless?: Our Elders

Am I hopeless?: Our Elders: "Whole society is consciously protecting our children. Everyone hates the person or action to hurt children. But what about our elders? Our..."

Our Elders

Whole society is consciously protecting our children. Everyone hates the person or action to hurt children. But what about our elders?

Our parents, grandparents had given all their emotion, money and time to raise us, taking us to university, caring about our wellbeing even when we have our own family. Now they are old, they are vulnerable. Are we trying to protect them as much as we are protecting our children?

From generation to generation the level of love and care from parents to children and from children to parents can hardly balance.

Talking To The One You Love

Some tips:

1. Giving compliments ------------------ evens criticism
2. smile with sense of humor. ----------- make people less offensive
3. talking right thing at right time ---- people want to listen
4. stop talking at right time ---------- giving space
5. using right body language ---------- avoid argument and fight
6. using gentle tongue ----------------- you are a winner!

strategic plan

Tonight I heard twice the word of "strategic plan" at two separate occasions. All the successful business people know this word too well. Without this word, they wouldn't be successful.

If business success needs strategic plan, how about relationship? The principle of success is same, unless we are not committed.

Like other success, to find the right one, we also need to set-up a goal. Not only goal, we need a plan and a dead line to achieve it. Not only plan and dead line, we need action to make it a success. How many people can relate to this?

What should I do if he doesn't call me anymore?

My girl friend Jane always worries after meeting someone she likes. What really borders her is what she should do if he doesn't call her anymore.

I hope someone can give her bit advice so she can relax. Who cares if he doesn't call anymore? Life carries on.